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Published On: Aug 01, 2007 12:59 AM
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Light Up a Colortini
While Tom Snyder's broadcasts
continue to fly through the air
I grew up during an unusual time in
history. I was young and impressionable in the tumultuous 60s and 70s. Among my
first memories were the assassinations of JFK, RFK, and Martin Luther King. I
was deeply influenced by the Beatles and, later, the murder of John Lennon. I
was horrified and fascinated by the murder of Sharon Tate by Charles Manson. As
well as by Vietnam, and the imperial presidency and impeachment of Richard
Nixon. Supposedly there
is a Chinese saying: "May you live in interesting times," and I have been
blessed or cursed to have grown up in such an historical vortex. It seemed to me
that from about 1980 through 2001, not much at all happened in
comparison.My generation
was also one of the first to be profoundly influenced by television. Those who
came before me marveled at the wonder of "the pictures flying through the air"
but my contemporaries were the first to experience the medium in color, and
then, in stereo. While those older than I grew up with such celebrities as
Edward R. Murrow, Lucy, and Uncle Miltie, I was weaned on Carson and children's
show hosts like Captain Kangaroo and, in NY, Officer Joe Bolton, Sandy Becker,
and Sonny Fox, who became, perhaps, our babysitters and somehow our friends. It
is an odd concept that we could feel so close to people we never
met.Johnny Carson, who
passed away about two years ago, was one of the first entertainers who came into
my home and sent me off to bed with a smile on my face. To this day, I still
watch Dave Letterman before bed to make me chuckle and wash away the cares of
the day.But Carson was an
entertainer. His onstage persona was not the person he was in private (or so I
read), and you did sort of know that. Even as a child I was always a late-night
person. I grew up in an apartment and it seemed there was always hubbub..... the
dishwasher making noise, whatever, my refuge was to go into my room, close the
door, turn on the TV, and find my own solitude. I would enjoy watching Carson
after my folks went to bed, on my little 12" black and white TV, in my
lime-green bedroom, with blue and green shag carpeting, psychedelic Richard
Avedon posters of the Beatles, a black light, and a lava
lamp.I was about 17 when
The Tomorrow Show with Tom Snyder debuted. I lived in New York, and at that
time, Snyder (I think) was also a news man in NY, as he was for a while after
the Tomorrow Show was cancelled. I was transfixed by his TV presence. Here was a
man who spoke directly to the camera--directly to me and his viewers, and he was
not objective like a newsman (even though he could be) or hidden behind a wall
of humor like Carson. He was just who he was. Opinionated, stubborn, goofy,
irascible, self-centered. He was also a Taurus as am I, almost exactly 20 years
older than me. I had found a friend, even a kindred spirit. So I began staying
up every night to watch Tomorrow. As I got older, I would light up a joint--in
an apartment with my folks sleeping in the next room. I would use a towel to
fill the crack under my bedroom door so the smoke would not leak out, and exhale
through an open window that was eleven floors above the ground. And in the
summer, the air conditioning would mask both the smell and the
sound.History passed in
front of my eyes. Snyder interviewed everyone from my god at the time--John
Lennon, to the devil--Charles Manson. And Snyder never minced words. Never. He
would ask and then say exactly what was on his mind; his dark eyebrows
fluttering in the middle of his ridiculously 70s styled hair and clothing (which
we all had back then). He could be silly, he could be intense, he could be
probing--he was always interesting and compelling. And I forged a bond with this
man on a 12" TV screen who I'd never met. I later became a news (print)
reporter, and the thing I remembered about Tom Snyder is how--even at his most
confrontational--he almost always put his interview subjects at ease. Because he
was real, he was genuine. He had opinions and he was curious. He always tried to
figure out what made his interviewees tick. And I think most of them admired him
for that. He was genuinely
interested.Snyder was
cancelled eventually, but I kept track of him. He did the news, he did a
syndicated radio show, he showed up on one of the NBC cable channels, and I
always caught him when I could. He was like an old
friend.And then Dave
Letterman brought him back for a few years to be the first host of the Late Late
Show. I knew he wouldn't last there. He was always somewhat of a maverick and
even though he enjoyed doing the show, I personally got the feeling that he was
thinking "been here done that" and maybe he was doing the show as a favor to
Dave for bringing him back. Just my feeling. And I think perhaps he didn't know
what else to do. Tom was an interviewer and, like a rock and roll musician, you
just have to keep doing what fires you up. I relished every show he did but I
knew he would move on. And he did after just a couple of
years.Eventually, in
semi-retirement, he started a Web site: colortini.com. He did a blog before it
was called a blog. It was basically the equivalent of what his opening monologue
used to be. He wrote about things that amused or irked him, and commented on TV
and politics. On the Web he was able to call assholes assholes, and it was
refreshing. It was as if he was still doing his show without having to worry
about network executives and
censors.He moved from LA
to Marin County, another bond because I lived in Marin and have a fondness for
it to this day. I'd always hoped to meet him somehow--for a drink at Sam's
in Tiburon perhaps. He had a sheepdog that he loved, I think the dog's name was
Oliver. At some point Oliver got sick--I had a different type of sheepdog, but
mine was also becoming ill. I emailed Tom to console him and he kindly answered
and thanked me. I wrote him a couple more times about various topics, and he did
answer from time to
time.On Tom's site he
would occasionally talk about the minor ailments he began to face with age, and
many people were stunned when he revealed that he'd been diagnosed with
leukemia. As I remember, he wrote that his brother also had it, had suffered
from it for some years, and was assured by his doctors--and he assured us--it
was manageable and
treatable.But then all of
a sudden he abandoned his Web site; it seemed he didn't have the time or energy
to be "public" anymore, and I had a bad feeling about that. I suspected he
wasn't doing well. Still, I was a bit shocked and very sad when his passing was
announced the other day. He was only 71. Still only 20 years older than me. I
never knew Tom Snyder but he touched my
life.So, TS, I will raise
a colortini in your honor. You stepped into the midst of history and made some
yourself. As Bob Hope sang, "Thanks for the memories." The universe is huge, and
your televised shows will continue to fly through space for, likely, longer than
humans inhabit the earth. It will be your legacy. Goodnight and have a pleasant
Tomorrow.
Posted: Wed - August 1, 2007 at 12:59 AM
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